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Your Memories Are Lying to You

By Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com
Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com

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Your memories might not be telling the truth. Learn why what you remember isn’t always what happened—and how changing your story can change your life.

Sticks and Stones: How to Let Go of Hurtful Words

By Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com
Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com

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Words can hurt—but they don’t have to. Discover how to stop taking things personally, respond with compassion, and find peace within yourself.

How One Woman Transformed Trauma into Strength

By Joyce Vissell
Joyce Vissell

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Healing requires courage, trust, and the willingness to take risks. This powerful story follows Charmaine, a woman who transformed deep trauma into strength through vulnerability and the power of forgiveness. From overcoming childhood abuse to reclaiming self-acceptance, her journey is an inspiring testament to resilience. Learn how stepping outside your comfort zone can open the door to healing and self-discovery.

Self-Love Practices: Connecting with Your True Self

By Patrick Marando
Patrick Marando

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Start your journey toward self-love and unlock the peace and resilience that come with listening to your true self. Self-love practices are the key to connecting with your true self and building emotional strength. Explore self-caring, compassion, forgiveness, respect, and trust to cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself. By embracing self-acceptance and practicing surrender, you can nurture your ability to navigate life’s challenges with courage and grace. 

Lessons on Diversity from the 2nd Century Roman Empire

By Eleni Bozia, University of Florida
Eleni Bozia, University of Florida

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What a second-century Roman citizen, Lucian, can teach us about diversity and acceptance. The Roman Empire, a hub of multilingualism and multiculturalism, shaped Lucian’s identity as a global citizen. His writings illuminate ancient lessons on diversity. 

4 Steps to Fully Embrace Your Body Image and Love Yourself

By Toni Bergins, M.Ed.
Toni Bergins, M.Ed.

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Struggling with body image can keep us stuck in a cycle of self-criticism. This article offers four powerful steps to shift your mindset and fully embrace self-love and body acceptance. Learn how to focus on different parts of your body, send love to your “not good enough” parts, take up space, and revel in being unapologetically yourself. Start healing your body image wound and appreciate the beauty of your body today.

The Self-Forgiveness Process: More Than Self-Comfort

By Mordechai Gordon, Quinnipiac University
Mordechai Gordon, Quinnipiac University

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Self-forgiveness is a vital process for personal healing and moral development. More than just self-comfort, it involves confronting guilt and shame, acknowledging wrongdoing, and making amends. By working through these emotions, individuals can grow morally and improve their relationships with others. This article explores the stages of self-forgiveness and its importance for emotional and ethical well-being, helping readers understand how to embark on this challenging but rewarding journey.

Message to Self: I Love You. I’m Sorry. Please Forgive Me. Thank You.

By Michelle Madrid
Michelle Madrid

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Discover the transformative power of forgiveness through the ancient Hawaiian practice of Ho’oponopono. Learn how these simple words can heal and bring you peace.

Understanding the True Meaning of Hate: Beyond "I Hate You"

By Kristine Hoover and Yolanda Gallardo, Gonzaga University
Kristine Hoover and Yolanda Gallardo, Gonzaga University

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 Have you ever said “I hate you” to someone? What about using the “h-word” in casual conversation, like “I hate broccoli”? What are you really feeling when you say that you hate something or someone?

Making Your Heart a Safe Place with a Spiritual Eraser

By Joyce Vissell
Joyce Vissell

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My grandfather was stern and bitter. Earlier in his life, he had owned a business with his brother, and he felt that his brother had cheated him. He often obsessed about that supposed injustice, even to me as a little girl. He wanted me to know every single detail. 

Free Yourself with the Love and Light Technique

By Chloe Panta
Chloe Panta

Free Yourself with the Love and Light Technique

Even if someone did something unspeakable to you or to someone you know, if you hold on to your anger, you are only hurting yourself. 

Letting Go of Our Stories: The Gateway to Peace

By Kate King
Kate King

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If there’s one phrase in the English language that has both befuddled and enraged people for generations, it’s let it go. It infuriates us because despite our deep longing to do such a thing, letting go remains elusive and always seemingly out of reach.

The Path to Forgiveness: My Dog Bokie and the Mysterious Hospital Chaplain

By Joyce Vissell
Joyce Vissell

Joyce Vissell and her beloved dog, Bokie

Bokie was more like a child to me than a dog. He was a steady loving presence that I counted on. While I still couldn't fully trust Barry, I could completely trust Bokie. He was never far from my side.

Healing Our Past and Living Forwards

By Gary C. Cooper
Gary C. Cooper

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Who doesn't wish they could rewind the tape of their lives and do a few things differently? “If I only knew then what I know now ...” We’ve all sung that song. So, what do we do with our troublesome memories?

The True Meaning of Self-Love: A Pathway to Personal Development

By Ian Robertson, University of Wollongong
Ian Robertson, University of Wollongong

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“To love what you are, the thing that is yourself, is just as if you were embracing a glowing red-hot iron” said psychonalyst Carl Jung.

Why Expand Your Circle of Compassion

By Lawrence Doochin
Lawrence Doochin

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Where compassion is, fear cannot be. Just as gratitude is the opposite of resentment, bitterness, and fear, compassion and judgment are also opposites. Compassion expands our energy, whereas judgment contracts it.

Tolerance and Acceptance in a World of Constant Contrasts

By Pierre Pradervand
Pierre Pradervand

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Never in the history of humanity have we been exposed to such an infinite variety of opinions, beliefs, forms of behavior, customs and so on. Humanity has become a melting pot of world dimensions!

The Power of an Apology -- and the Cost of Not

By Jude Bijou
Jude Bijou

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We all sometimes say and do things we regret. What is the upside of a genuine apology? What is the cost of not apologizing?

How to Attain Freedom from Hidden Shame

By Joyce Vissell
Joyce Vissell

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Ram Dass taught us many very important things. Perhaps the most important is to accept and love ourselves completely and to not hide the darker sides of our being.

Self-Responsibility: The Key to Owning Your Past... and Your Power

By Friedemann Schaub, M.D., Ph.D.
Friedemann Schaub, M.D., Ph.D.

a smiling young woman

Although you may know you’re a good person who has something to offer the world, when your victim pattern runs your life, you inevitably feel stifled and trapped by people you’ve encountered in the past or are dealing with now.

Letting Go and Taking Forgiveness to the Next Level

By Joyce Vissell
Joyce Vissell

a young Buddhist monk releasing a white dove to the skies

A lot has been written about forgiveness and how it blesses the person who forgives. I hope to add another aspect which is very important in the journey of full forgiveness.

Go From Body Shame to Body Acceptance

By Gabes Torres
Gabes Torres

an overweight woman sitting down holding a big heart in her lap

"When was the last time you experienced compassion? Similar to shame, compassion is also a social experience."

Forgiveness: The Unavoidable Transition to a Better World

By Olivier Clerc
Olivier Clerc

a silver old-style pass key with a tag that says "Memories"

“Can we heal the wounds of the heart, can everything be forgiven?” The question must actually be refor­mulated. 

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