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Breaking Free from Toxic Bonds: A Mother and Son Story

By Barry Vissell
Barry Vissell

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When a mother becomes emotionally enmeshed with her adult son, it can sabotage marriages and personal growth. In this real-life story, Barry Vissell explores emotional incest, boundary-setting, and how true love means growing up—for everyone.

Why Family Estrangement is on the Rise – Lessons from King Lear

By Jeanette Tran, Drake University
Jeanette Tran, Drake University

Adult children going ‘no contact’ with parents, reflecting dilemmas like those in Shakespeare’s King Lear, which delves into family ties, estrangement, and legacy.

In today’s world, family estrangement is more common than ever. Shakespeare’s King Lear provides profound insights into the emotional and ethical complexities of severing family ties—shedding light on the heartache and difficult decisions that come with going ‘no contact.’

How to Heal a Sibling Feud Before It’s Too Late

By Ramona Alaggia, University of Toronto
Ramona Alaggia, University of Toronto

Oasis reunion: Healing sibling feuds and resolving estrangement, with lessons from the Gallagher brothers’ journey.

Sibling feuds can last a lifetime if not resolved. The Oasis reunion offers an example of how sibling relationships can heal, but what can we learn from it? Discover proven strategies for resolving sibling estrangement, including counseling, conflict resolution techniques, and building emotional awareness. Whether it's high-profile feuds like Liam and Noel Gallagher or personal family matters, healing sibling relationships can lead to stronger family bonds.

Overcoming Long-Distance Caregiving Challenges: A Practical Guide

By Navjot Gill-Chawla, University of Waterloo
Navjot Gill-Chawla, University of Waterloo

A caregiver sitting at a desk, looking at a laptop while holding a phone, symbolizing the challenges of coordinating care remotely from a long distance.

Long-distance caregiving presents unique challenges, from emotional stress to managing logistics across time zones. This article explores practical strategies for overcoming caregiving challenges, including building support networks, utilizing technology, and accessing financial resources. With the right tools, distant caregivers can provide meaningful assistance to their loved ones while balancing their own well-being. Learn how to navigate long-distance caregiving with confidence and resilience.

Expressing Emotions Differently in Family Dynamics

By Joyce Vissell
Joyce Vissell

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This article explores how different families express emotions. It highlights the contrasting dynamics between two families—one that conceals emotions and another that overtly expresses them. The piece delves into the impact of these differences on family relationships and individual well-being, offering insights into navigating diverse emotional landscapes within families.

What To Do with Grandma and Grandpa: 4 Key Truths About Senior Housing Challenges

By Nelly Some
Nelly Some

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This article delves into "Senior Housing Transition Challenges" and "Choosing Senior Care Facilities," providing essential insights for families navigating these decisions. It highlights four major areas where seniors face difficulties during transitions, such as losing independence and adjusting to new routines. The piece underscores the emotional and psychological impacts of these changes, aiming to equip families with the understanding needed to support their loved ones effectively.

Family Ancestry Stories: Myths vs. DNA Facts

By Cairelle Crow
Cairelle Crow

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When you uncover hidden truths in your family ancestry stories with DNA testing you may learn how DNA testing can reveal inaccuracies and connect you to your heritage.

The Father-Son Wound and How To Heal It

By Barry Vissell
Barry Vissell

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I feel it is vital for not only men, but also women, to understand the father-son wound, and to know how to heal it.

When You Don’t Feel Like You Fit In Your Family Tree...

By Cairelle Crow
Cairelle Crow

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There are many ways to have a family. All are valid, and each one represents a place on the beautiful spectrum of how families exist. Each one is worthy of writing down for the future to look back upon.

Healing Ancestral Wrongdoings and Dysfunctional Patterns

By Cairelle Crow
Cairelle Crow

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When we descend from people who’ve done terrible things, or from people who themselves have been the recipient of some sort of trauma, this energy carries itself down through our physical DNA and the genetic memory of our energetic DNA, even if we’ve never met these ancestors in person. 

Eight Points of Pain that Adoptees Need to Heal

By Michelle Madrid
Michelle Madrid

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We’re not here, as adoptees, to live someone else’s life. My desire to get to the truth of me and to reignite the light within me has taken me on a transformational journey...

How to Stop Family History from Repeating Itself

By John Campbell
John Campbell

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When I was studying for a certificate in counselling, we had to create a ‘genogram.’ This is similar to a family tree, but in addition to recording the names and dates of births, deaths, marriages, etc. of each family member, we were also required to do little biographies on each person.

Adopted Children and the Lost Orphan Within

By Stephen Rowley, PhD
Stephen Rowley, PhD

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Adoptees are a diverse, yet invisible community. We live in plain sight, but our adopted status is usually unseen by others.

Bridging Generations for Mental Well-being: The Power of Intergenerational Connections

By Jason Proulx et al
Jason Proulx et al

three generations together

Discover the positive impact of intergenerational connections on mental well-being. Explore how programs like iGen foster meaningful relationships between young and old, bringing happiness and bridging social divides.

Healing Your Roots and Family Patterns

By Anuradha Dayal-Gulati
Anuradha Dayal-Gulati

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Through repetitive patterns, you experience emotions that your ancestors might have experienced. Emotions are the connecting element between two worlds...

What Is Eldest Daughter Syndrome and How Can We Fix It?

By Yang Hu
Yang Hu

children/siblings

Have you heard of “eldest daughter syndrome”? It’s the emotional burden eldest daughters tend to take on (and are encouraged to take on) in many families from a young age.

5 Realistic Tips to Ease the Pressure about Family Meals

By Georgia Middleton, et al
Georgia Middleton, et al

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Eating together regularly as a family has long been promoted as a simple solution for improving health and wellbeing.

Are Family Patterns Holding You Back?

By Anuradha Dayal-Gulati
Anuradha Dayal-Gulati

flowers in a field

Do you feel that you are living your life in full bloom? Do you too feel as if there’s a ceiling on life that shows up in different ways?

How to Talk to Your Relatives to Get To Know Them

By Elizabeth Keating
Elizabeth Keating

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How is it possible to spend so much time with your parents and grandparents and not really know them?

Repairing the Gulf Created by Dysfunctional Childhood Relationships

By Ronni Tichenor and Jennie Weaver
Ronni Tichenor and Jennie Weaver

two siblings in the snow

All sibling relationships have their ups and downs, good times and bad. But in a family with abuse, addiction, and mental illness, the relationships are warped by a range of dysfunctional dynamics.

How to Heal the Spiritual Wound from Childhood Trauma or Abuse 

By Ronni Tichenor and Jennie Weaver
Ronni Tichenor and Jennie Weaver

young woman sitting on a beach with her face hidden in her bands

Children raised in homes with abuse, addiction, mental illness, and other traumas typically live in a state of denial. They must continually tell themselves that the terrible things they’re seeing, hearing, and feeling aren’t really happening.

Overcoming Generational Obstacles and Expanding Your Perspective

By Amit Goswami, Ph.D.
Amit Goswami, Ph.D.

an old abandoned homestead house and farm

We’re carrying and reacting to a pre-programed template that is not even ours. Life itself throws us enough curveballs daily keeping us busy until we die. The last thing we need is the complication of carrying the unresolved ancestral issues of the past...

Why Mothers Are Expressing Rage And Harnessing Their Power

By Amanda D. Watson, Simon Fraser University
Amanda D. Watson, Simon Fraser University

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Mothering during the pandemic has been covered extensively — from issues of economic hardship, to untenable caregiving responsibilities, acute and ongoing strains on maternal mental health  

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