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The Secret Power of Need: Yes, We Need Each Other

By Barry Vissell
Barry Vissell

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Our survival as a species depends on our interdependence. We can only survive through love and cooperation ... and acceptance of our need for one another as well as our need to give to one another.

Getting to Know Your Authentic Self

By Ora Nadrich
Ora Nadrich

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Each day we go out into the world and present who we are to others. But sometimes, unbeknownst to us, we present who we think we should be, or need to be. We may put on a false persona as a way to get the love and acknowledgment we deeply crave. 

Unraveling the Ties That Bind Us: Healing Our Core Wound

By Sally Patton
Sally Patton

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When we fall into a hole of our own making, it is probably a situation we’ve experienced before. There may be different actors and a different setting, but the essence of the problem is the same.

Being Authentically Yourself -- Out Loud

By Vasavi Kumar
Vasavi Kumar

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When you practice rigorous honesty with yourself and get comfortable saying your thoughts out loud, you will no longer hold back on authentically communicating with everyone in your life.

The Horrors and Gifts of Growing Older

By Hugh and Gayle Prather
Hugh and Gayle Prather

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I’m beginning to notice a few unexpected benefits from looking my age.

Me Me Me vs Taking Care of Oneself

By Jude Bijou
Jude Bijou

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I heard an interesting theory about egoism a while back... "Egoism is the root of all conflict in the world." Intuitively that makes perfect sense.

Learning Self-Care—Saying No and Using Love as the Ultimate Healing Tool

By Eileen Day McKusick
Eileen Day McKusick

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"Your relationship with your body is one of the most important relationships you’ll ever have. And since repairs are expensive and spare parts are hard to come by, it pays to make that relationship good. "

The Path of Self Love Is Not for the Faint of Heart

By Sarah Love McCoy
Sarah Love McCoy

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Truth be told, the path of Self Love is not for the faint of heart. There's no destination or end to it.

Why You Can’t Remember Being Born, Learning To Walk Or Saying Your First Words

By Vanessa LoBue, Rutgers University
Vanessa LoBue, Rutgers University

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Despite the fact that people can’t remember much before the age of 2 or 3, research suggests that infants can form memories – just not the kinds of memories you tell about yourself.

Freeing Ourselves by Telling the Truth

By Barbara Berger
Barbara Berger

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It's hard to make any real progress on the journey of self-discovery, self-realization, self-empowerment and healing without telling the truth. We have to tell the truth to get the energy moving. We have to tell the truth for change to happen in our lives.

How To Bring Yourself To Delete That Social Media Account

By Sharon Horwood, Deakin University
Sharon Horwood, Deakin University

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For more than a decade we’ve been deeply immersed in a love affair with social media. And the thought of ending things can be painful.

Why You Might Feel "Blah" After Christmas

By Jolanta Burke, RCSI University of Medicine and Health Sciences
Jolanta Burke, RCSI University of Medicine and Health Sciences

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The holiday season is usually a joyous occasion, but many people feel “blah” soon after the celebrations. What is it about Christmas that makes people feel this way?

Loving Relationships and a Peaceful Soul

By Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com
Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com

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All of us, even animals, need to love and be loved. We need it for basic survival, we need it for growth, both physical and emotional, and we need it for happiness. 

Loving Relationships and a Peaceful Soul (Video)

By Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com
Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com

smiling mother, sitting on the grass, holding up a child

All of us, even animals, need to love and be loved. We need it for basic survival, we need it for growth, both physical and emotional, and we need it for happiness. 

Pleasure: The Medicine of Sensing and Being Here Now

By Julia Paulette Hollenbery
Julia Paulette Hollenbery

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Ancient Vedic texts describe the universe and everything in it, including us, as being made of bliss. Bliss is our underlying nature, discoverable through a focus on this moment of experience.

Pleasure: The Medicine of Sensing and Being Here Now (Video)

By Julia Paulette Hollenbery
Julia Paulette Hollenbery

woman touching her bare arm

Ancient Vedic texts describe the universe and everything in it, including us, as being made of bliss. Bliss is our underlying nature, discoverable through a focus on this moment of experience.

Is There Such A Thing As Good Selfishness?

By Alan Cohen
Alan Cohen

What Is The Highest and Best Form of Selfishness?

I have been rethinking selfishness, the ego, and self-centeredness. In some schools of thought these are dirty words, nasty attributes to be subdued, transmuted, and overcome. But maybe they're not so bad. Maybe it's all how you look at them. Baseball star Reggie Jackson said, "The only thing I don't...

Healing Otherness: Your Changes, Reflected in Community

By Stacee L. Reicherzer PhD
Stacee L. Reicherzer PhD

Healing Otherness: Your Changes, Reflected in Community

Seeking out a community of healing, being exploited in it, perhaps assuming the shame and responsibility for what went wrong, and then isolating back into our struggle, can become a cycle. This happens in many ways as we choose bold and radical new lives for ourselves.

Healing Otherness: Your Changes, Reflected in Community (Video)

By Stacee L. Reicherzer PhD
Stacee L. Reicherzer PhD

Healing Otherness: Your Changes, Reflected in Community

Seeking out a community of healing, being exploited in it, perhaps assuming the shame and responsibility for what went wrong, and then isolating back into our struggle, can become a cycle...

Are Emotions Bad or Are They A Gateway to the Soul?

By Brandon Bays
Brandon Bays

Are Emotions Bad or A Gateway to Your Soul?

We often have the misconception that our emotions interfere with our experience of ultimate peace: that they are the storm that distracts us from spacious calm. There are so many false notions about emotions. We usually learn at an early age that there are "good"...

Being A Better Person

By Marie T. Russell
Marie T. Russell

Being A Better Person

"He makes me want to be a better person." As I reflected on this statement later, I realized that this is the best compliment anyone could ever hope to receive. Just think about your own life... Think of the reactions and comments you may have made about others...

Getting Along With Others: Simple or Complicated?

By Karol Kuhn Truman
Karol Kuhn Truman

Getting Along With Others: Simple or Complicated?

Many people have real challenges in their relationships with other people. Are you one of them? One of the largest contributing factors to your ability to freely enjoy other people depends upon how much you enjoy yourself... how much you accept yourself.

Are You Honoring Yourself? Honor is Really About Respect

By Brian Klemmer
Brian Klemmer

Are You Honoring Yourself? Honor is Really About Respect

The word respect is commonly used as it relates to respecting others. For example, "Respect your elders. Honor your mother and your father." These phrases are familiar. But how about this one: "Honor yourself." Does that feel right to you?

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